McRamone, do not confuse a WAS wanting to do MC with a that wants to reconcile. I gave you reasons that WAS will agree or even suggest MC. No WAW that wants to separate is trying to reconcile even if it's their idea to do MC.

I think your biggest issue is trying to decide what to do based on what is likely to please her. That is a recipe for disaster. You go live your life, and be busy GAL. If she wants a date night, go sometimes, other times be busy. Stop worrying so much and her and what action is "best". That's likely how you got into this situation. And it is yet another sign of Nice Guy Syndrome. "If I agree to x then she will like me!" Liking you and respecting you are different animals. Go for respect first

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018