I can tell you to stop posting. How much control over you do I have? (That is an attempt at controlling you) If I decide you are not worth my time, I can stop posting to you. (That is my boundary) I can state it to you, or I can just take the action and stop posting to you.
See the difference?
I did the last night. We we talking and she started to raise her voice. I told her that I wasn't going to have her raise her voice at me and me and left.
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You have lots of choices on how to respond. I believe your best option is to enthusiastically support her, even though you do not think it is the best option.
She has to FEEL like she has lost you before anything is going to start getting better.
This feels more difficult because my initial approach wasn't this. Though I agree.
P.S I was trying to do quote blocks and I think I messed up and used your name for another person. Sorry. I have a little knowledge of html and it's a bad thing.
