6- Any suggestions from experienced members before she moves out? anything specific I should try to do before? I'll be straight up, my ideal long-term scenario is we reconcile. I know that means i need to let her go and find herself, as well as other men for the next while, however long that is. The long game is played through the kids I guess. I just feel that the time we're under the same roof should probably be used strategically? Or is that manipulative and false hope on my end? I think I know the answer.
Become the best version of you. Be the best dad ever. Make positive changes to your behavior and the way you interact with everyone. Be attractive and seductive. Do not attempt to control her. Do not allow disrespect. Control yourself. Do not make these changes to attract her, do it for you. Do not let her control or manipulate you. Take your time to think about things and make decisions. Run things past us as needed.
Only you know what 180's you can do. If you were passive, be assertive, if you were assertive be more passive.
Do you have a new friend group? Can you have them over?
Have you made the MBR yours, More manly?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
