Originally Posted by Galaga
That is definitely my boundary. And it's obvious I'll never get the truth out of her.


Not tolerating lying is a boundary. This is how you set and enforce:
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Stop. We both know you're lying. If that's all you have then I have more important things to attend to. Please excuse me...
Get up to leave...


Do not "push" her for any info. This is the time to observe and listen.

#1) Never reveal WHAT you know.
#2) Never reveal HOW you know.
#3) Only reveal the YOU DO KNOW.

Walking away from someone who is lying to you is a great boundary.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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