This is only a guess on experience in life and in these forums
If she admitted she kissed him, she went further. Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally. Don’t ever believe what they say, believe what they do. A perfect example is your last post. She says she loves you, she says she sorry for breaking the family. She says she’s got help…however what she does is continue to pack to leave.
Definitely get a lawyer. You’ve been fired for now, but if it helps, hopefully just laid off as her partner. Protect yourself. Spending 2 or 3 grand now could save you 10 grand later.
Keep your head high.
That is definitely my boundary. And it's obvious I'll never get the truth out of her. I'm sure it was more and she is ashamed or doesn't want to be honest about it.
Son 19 was here when she picked up stuff today and asked her if I knew she was here .....if not she wasn't allowed in.
"But it's my house too" she responded. She didn't take too kindly to being told no it isn't.