I posted the link as an example on how do deal with any lies.
Normally they admit one or two layers less than the truth.
We are just friends = We are more than just friends. We have either an emotional or sexual relation. We kissed once = they have done more than kiss. We had sex once, it didn't mean anything = We had sex many times, most likely still
You have gathered some intel that lets you know you she lies to you.
I pushed again last night about the affair. "I only kissed him". Which deep down I'm starting to disbelieve.
Told her I loved her but that she was becoming an alien. She responded "you know what, I love you too but couldn't continue the way it was. I know you have got help and I'm glad. I've got help as well. I'm sorry I broke up our family. No one else did it it was me. I got up and I walked away."
But then fast forward to today and she came and collected more of her stuff from the house. I left because at this moment I don't want to face her. I'm not detached enough.
