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Originally Posted by Lillieper
I appreciate the need to rant from time to time--- so have at it with no apology necessary.

But the main reason why people are telling you that YOU need to do something is because you are HERE on this BB.

If your spouse were here on the BB they'd be getting the "this is what you need to do message."

That's the answer, plain and simple.

We don't usually say, "What your partner needs to do is--" because we mostly recognize that you can't make other people do things.

We pick on the poster because they're here to be picked on.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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