Thanks for the help...I so wanted to ask about us, but it just might be a setback right now. You are right, I do have to look at the little things and go with them...its just really hard sometimes because I just want to go up to him and squeeze him so hard and tell him I love him. I have done lots of work on myself and because of all of this, I have discovered some of the ways I need to change. Is there some way to let him know that I am glad that he finally was the one to say "we are having problems and Im not happy" It gave me a different perspective on things and it has probably saved us in the long run...we might have a chance now where as if we would have just stayed where we were, it might have gotten so bad, there would be no chance of us again.
