((((Hope)))) Sometimes your exh reminds me of my son's dad, who seemed to think that he could pop in AP/OW/Vista/2.0 and her kids and that our son would be A-Ok with it all.
Not. So.
I want to hug your son, and you. It is so very difficult to watch our children suffering from the aftermath of their other parent's choices. My son doesn't want this new family; he wants HIS family. I'm happy your son is telling you what's going on. Mine has kept it bottled up for years and now it's been bubbling over in self destructive ways. The sense of abandonment is devastating for these kids. I've tried to over-compensate, which has created other issues. I don't advise that!
It's so hard to take the high road when the b@st@rds are hurting our kids but that's the best thing for our children.
Keeping you in my thoughts xoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
