Situation: H says cant love me like H should and doesnt feel in love with me. He has been sleeping in other room up until 1 week ago. He got hurt playing softball and ended up in the hospital...was very scary...but I was there by his side the whole time. Well, every night since, he has slept in bed with me. Except one night, he just said he needed some space. Since this whole situation has began, I have not once had the R talk. I am wondering how long and what signs I should look for that will let me know I can start asking questions about "us" again? I dont want to push, but I just geel like I am hanging by a thread and dont really know where I stand. He isnt making any efforts to get out of the marriage, just the opposite, like new imporvements to house, talking about refinancing the house. Stuff like that, but I dont get any type of intimacy from him. Actually I asked for hug yesterday and it just felt kind of fake...I hate it!! Any suggestions
