Mach refresh my memory on the last relationship talk with your W.
Your sitch is odd.
Its been a while, really. I vaguely remember her making comments like she was numb, no feelings, not attracted. But, had thought about getting back together but of course scared all I am doing was showing my best side etc, and would revert back to old self. Makes sense, I get that.. She mentioned she knows whomever I end up with will get a much improved person than what she had during our times. Lately she has mentioned how happy I seem and such, dressed nicer. Very complimentary.. She did make a comment recently about how her Mom told her to let go of worrying about my feelings. Worry about her own feelings and heal. She says she is very comfortable around me, not in a cocky way, just very relaxed around me.. I am just trying to remember things from previous conversations. But the reality is, we are not engaging in any reconciliation or any relationship talks. Divorce, neither of us will or seems too, want to do it.. Both our lawyers said to us separately that they didnt think we ever will.. I thought that was weird, as they both work in different law firms.. She chuckled when I mentioned it after signing separation papers, as her lawyer didnt think we will get divorced. Not sure what she said to her lawyer.. Funny Hopium statements.. Sorry for the ramble. But, like I said in bold, no actual relationship talks have happened in quite some time. Cant even remember, probably end of 2020? If I remember anything. Question is, what would I ask if I did ask where we are going? It seems it would just cause more distancing.
