Telling her about an ex you’re talking to…that’s fairly manipulative, and a last ditch effort that will provide the opposite results you want unless your goal is to help her feel better about her behavior. What’s going to happen is you’re going to validate her behavior in her mind, push any chance right out the door, and odds are she’ll paint herself as the victim. Guarantee you’ll hear at some point that she was going to give it another shot until you cheated on her.
This is basic, two wrongs don’t make a right and attempting to hurt her feelings or scare her into acting right won’t have any positive lasting effects.
Ask yourself, why even open the can of worms talking to this woman if you want your marriage to work?
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
