Originally Posted by Galaga
Any parts in particular?
I still want to resolve this and can only see if I do anything it will only push her further away.

I posted the link as an example on how do deal with any lies.

Normally they admit one or two layers less than the truth.

We are just friends = We are more than just friends. We have either an emotional or sexual relation.
We kissed once = they have done more than kiss.
We had sex once, it didn't mean anything = We had sex many times, most likely still

You have gathered some intel that lets you know you she lies to you.

Do not tolerate lies.


Read as much as possible during this initial phase. Everything you will encounter during your journey through this process has been experienced by posters here. There are many choices on how to respond to things, arm yourself with as many options as possible, determine which will be the most effective in your current sitch, and behave accordingly.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712