In my earlier posts I was clear on working on this relationship, but I was convinced to GAL. I honestly figured part of GAL was getting out there, not just hobbies, but completely diving back into your life before the relationship.
You really need to learn what GAL means. It is not dating. It is not acting single. It is going out and reconnecting with old and new MALE friends. All of the advice that is worth anything on GAL insists you stay away from the single's scene. It is about having a life outside of being the husband and father that you still are. Hanging out with the guys. Rekindling old interests and hobbies. Staying busy.
No where in the advice did GAL mean go out and start dating.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
