I just got a fwd email from W concerning the divorce counselling or MC. We'll have an appointment in the next 24-48 hours. I'm pretty sure its divorce counselling. Not sure how to approach this. Since she's already out there dating, and not being honest about it. Is there even a point to attending this together? I just don't see the point.
I'm leaning towards writing exactly that. But at the same time I understand I need to stop arguing, validate, and actively listen. What's the next step in this case?
"I've decided that couples counseling at this point would be a waste of time. I'm committed to individual counseling for myself."
Simple. Short. To the point.
How about if its divorce counselling? Same reply?
Pretty much.
Maybe more "I refuse to participate in something I am morally opposed to. I will be committing to IC, however."
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
