Ask her what her intentions are with the counseling.
I'm all for MC, (is this also a bad thing?) however i'm not sure i want to participate in divorce counselling. Given her blatant lack of honesty, and if all she'll give is divorce planning, I don't see the point in pretending we're friends and that we want to get along. I think i'd prefer we just make plans to separate. Is it ok to tell her that was not what i agreed to, and refuse? Or is that still showing too much attachment?
Oh boy. Costanza: What are your goals from this counseling? To work on the marriage or facilitate divorce? Wife: To facilitate a divorce. Costanza: No thanks I am not interested. Wife: To work on the marriage Constanza: Ok. Let me think about it.
Originally Posted by costanza
In my earlier posts I was clear on working on this relationship, but I was convinced to GAL. I honestly figured part of GAL was getting out there, not just hobbies, but completely diving back into your life before the relationship.
Come on man. Read Wayfarer's post a couple times. You don't have an option that doesn't suck. You have to pick the least sucky option of all the sucky options you have and learn to accept it.
