Ask her what her intentions are with the counseling.
I'm all for MC, (is this also a bad thing?) however i'm not sure i want to participate in divorce counselling. Given her blatant lack of honesty, and if all she'll give is divorce planning, I don't see the point in pretending we're friends and that we want to get along. I think i'd prefer we just make plans to separate. Is it ok to tell her that was not what i agreed to, and refuse? Or is that still showing too much attachment?
Originally Posted by LH19
Ah getting some affection in the bachelors pad. You are just as bad as her. Apparently this marriage doesn't mean anything to either of you. Probably best to come to a amicable split and move on.
In my earlier posts I was clear on working on this relationship, but I was convinced to GAL. I honestly figured part of GAL was getting out there, not just hobbies, but completely diving back into your life before the relationship.
