One thing that isnt quite clear is, being just a friend is not marriage. It almost sounds like you should be divorced, so both of you can move forward, then reconcile if things turn around in the future. But, being married and acting single, not living with each other, is not a marriage.. Thoughts?
100%.
Mach I hate to break it to you but your W moved on long ago. Most likely years.
Do you know when you are 100% most likely to reconcile effectively?
When you no longer care if you do or not.
That's the honest and sad truth. Reconciliation requires a level playing field, an even starting line. BOTH of you need to be willing to walk and to believe the other one will leave. That makes you something worth having.
