Originally Posted by kas99
I want this over with.
I can certainly understand that, and it sounds like your process is way longer and drawn out than mine and others'. Hang in there.

Originally Posted by kas99
Stbxh took D16 therapy and she quit after 3 sessions because the therapist told her that he didn't cheat.
Originally Posted by job
I do not blame your D16 for quitting therapy. The therapist should be listening to her and guiding her.
Agreed. Why would the therapist make a factual determination? Doesn't seem like a therapist' role.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21