NO! Do not move out. Or, at the very least don't move out without consulting a L and having a separation agreement in place regarding custody and financials.
Originally Posted by costanza
How is nesting so bad?
You're life in constantly in-flux. You have no way to ensure she doesn't bring OM into your home or the apartment I'd assume you'd share. It's not sustainable anyway. Maybe for a month or 3 or 6, but your kids are 2 and 4, not 17. If she's determined to leave it won't change anything.
Originally Posted by costanza
How does one say no exactly?
"I've decided not to move out." "You're welcome to move out if you'd like, but I plan to stay in the house."
Originally Posted by costanza
Isn't this what's best for the kids? The thought of uprooting them so fast seems so harsh.
Your W is on a path to disrupt your kids' lives. Unfortunately if she's determined to go down that path, you can not change that. You have to stand firm for your own best interests and be a rock for the kids.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
