Don't really want to get lawyers involved as it will cost a fortune.
We always get LBSs here that say they can't afford a lawyer. Divorce is a legal proceeding. When it comes to D, unless it is completely amicable and with NO disputes, you cannot afford to NOT have a lawyer.
It is like having car trouble and saying "I don't want to involve a mechanic because it will cost a fortune......"
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