Originally Posted by scaredA
Just throwing this out there, for all the good feedback. Im thinking of asking her if she would be interested in attending a DB coach.
You may want to be careful specifically referencing Divorce Busting (DB) / Divorce Remedy (DR) / Michele Weiner-Davis in case she comes across this forum and recognizes your sitch. Probably best not for her to read through this thread.

I'll leave the general MC question to others, but the typical consensus is make sure both of you are "all-in" on fixing the marriage before entering into counseling, and it doesn't sound to me like she is...it sounds like you're trying to "take action" to "fix things" because you want progress and she's not ready.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21