You can't do anything to make her stop. What you can do is control the way you act in response to her behavior.
My comment was more rhetorical. I agree with you. What do you wish you had done stronger in that situation? I cannot be sure she is txting him, so I have just kept quiet about it. She may just he on instagram.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
If you have to do absolutely everything for those kids while you are trying to figure out what to do here in this MR you're going to just have to do it. Your kids come first. They are not pawns. They are not puppies. They are not neutral observers in this this situation. They are just as in the middle of chaos as you are and you trying to pawn them off on a person who doesn't want to deal with them to prove a point is kind of cruel. So what if she's doing less?
^This, 100%. The kids are your #1 responsibility. You're the parent. Make sure they're cared for.
Originally Posted by BL42
Huh?! If she's physically abusing your son, taking action would be a great 180.
The physical violence between your W and S is extremely concerning. If it happens again you need to intervene and stop it.[\quote]
I have been trying to intervene before it gets that far.
