So Scared I am just going to throw this are there regarding some of the facts of the case.
Your W is physically abusive to you and your children, neglects your children, it addicted to social media, sleeps with other dudes and tells you about it and it is so bad you basically went a year without talking to her. What exactly are you trying to save?
Google search: Rejection breeds obsession
I will look up rejection breeds obcession.
Also good question, what am I trying to save? Firstly, my family. I know that my kids will be devastated by a divorce. I am pretty sure that the oldest will want to be with me and the youngest with her. So even the kids wont be living together anymore. Deep down I really do love her, but I do not want the relationship we had back. I want things to be more open and understanding. I really want us to be a family. When times were better, she was a very good mother. I have treated/neglected her very badly. There is no excuse for her affair, but I can understand how things have developed the way they are. When we met we were crazy about each other. My job finsihed and I left her country, we couldnt be together for eight months. My mother was dead set against her, as she was from a lower income country. We fought all of this, together, until we were eventually reunited and got married.
I really just want my family back. It is very hard at the moment. I have put in a cut off date, this cannot go on forever!
