It's difficult to take the SSRI's out of the picture, my failures were directly linked to them. I became paranoid, anxious and resentful.
Originally Posted by costanza
I realized I was spiralling deeper around June and I told her I needed help and had to figure out what was happening to me.
Whatever these docs told you, I doubt any would attribute your paranoia, anxiety, or spiraling as side effects of her medication. Dealing with change is hard, especially so if you’re used to being in the driver’s seat, and now she’s more capable. Yes, I’d focus on stabilizing your own mental health and dropping or putting much less energy into your theories about her medication. If she doesn’t like who she is on the medication, she will make changes. You fix you. You do you.
