LH, absolutely. It was 3-5yrs out I burned through anger, 5-7yrs out we began getting friendlier. If I could give younger me advise, it’d be to get therapy to work through that process in less time. Life is short and relationships are precious. We’re both sharing possible futures; Mach will have to work out what he can handle for now and what he’s aiming for for now. I wish him luck!