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Ok so you know she’s having an affair so no need to snoop anymore.

Agreed, you have told me many times that she will do what she is going to do. If I snoop and know about it, it just hurts me more and it is going to happen anyway.

So when you confronted and said “you’re free to do what you want just don’t treat me like an idiot”
What exactly does that mean?

I meant it all out in the open now anyway. If you are going to see him, you are free, I cannot stop you. But dont treat me like an idiot and say you are going to the "supermarket" Also at least wait until the kids have been put into bed before you go out with him. The kids are really suffering.

Good job getting out for drinks. Be careful about becoming “merry maid”. Do your share but no more.

Gym is always a great outlet.

yea been to the gym again this morning. Did curls until my biceps couldn't do any more

So if she was honest and said I going to see OM when the kids are in bed you then would be ok with it?

No I wouldnt be. But I could plan accordingly. At the moment I am confused. She came right out and told me about the affair, no she says she is not in contact with him. Hi believe that she is still in contact, but they may not have met for quite a while. Last week, when she was very drunk, she said she had not had sex for four months. Its all a bunch of lies, I suppose.