She promises there is no one else, and she's always been so brutally honest that I believe her. If anything I think she wishes there was so it'd be easier for me to accept.
I thought this too. My husband couldn't even tell a tiny white lie. Ever. Not saying your wife is having an affair. But new job, going out with friends, new school... I don't think you can necessarily discount this as a possibility.
I mentioned this above. Thornton mentioned it. Do you have any indication whatsoever of another man involved? Even just a gut intuition? Is she guarding her phone? That's typically a big tip-off.
That's the thing, her phone and laptop are always wide open, there is zero attempt to hide anything there. If she did meet someone, it would seem she's made a deal to wait until January before starting things up. She's been pretty clear about where, what and with who she goes out, when she does, even when I don't ask. I'm still not completely convinced, I'd be an idiot if I didn't consider it.
When I ended things with her after our first year, and I re-established contact ~10 months later, she was seeing someone for a couple of months, and she refused anything physical with me until she had a chance to see the guy and end it in person. Took a few days as he was away on business. It took her 15 minutes and she called me right after. She really is the most honest person I know. But ya, I need to remain open to the possibility.
