On the 14 months with no follow-up. One thing with SSRIs is they can't just be stopped. Often times Drs will extend the prescription with a promise the patient will schedule the follow-up. I've seen this happen with my wife at least a couple of times.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018