SSRI's and divorce - Wife doesn't love me anymore

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I absolutely love and appreciate your replies and the questions you come back with even more! Really sheds light on the situation and changes the perspective. You should be paid for this!

I feel for you with the two young kids. So similar to my sitch, with S4 and D1 at BD.

I also wondered about the impact SSRIs/ADs were having on my ExW as well, as well as postpartum depression and her family history/trama in her teenage years. The thing about it is, whether they are factor on her mindset or not, doesn't really matter in terms of your best approach forward. You likely won't be able to reason or logic your way out of it with her; she probably won't listen and will more likely will push back or further away from you. Trust me, I get your mindset trying to "understand/reason/fix", but you're better off dropping your focus on the SSRIs and instead focus completely on yourself and the kids. Work on detachment, work on your 180s, get out and GAL...etc. Get strong and make yourself the best man you can be.

I'm a year and a half ahead of you. Hopefully you don't get divorced like, but I can tell you even if you do I'm in a much better state than a year ago.