I would really have preferred you were busy that day and then gone out and GAL. But ok, you are committed to go now. It didn't sound to me like "I really want to go with you and have you meet all my friends." It sounded to me like "I don't have a better option at the moment, so will you go?" I worry what would have happened if OM had still been in the picture. Maybe not due to the laws in your country.
I'm going to use this as an opportunity to GAL. I will go, leave her and mingle around. I may meet a new friend. I'm pretty sure she couldn't go with OM to these events, certainly not as a couple. To be honest I'm not even sure OM is out of the picture.
Originally Posted by SteveLW
What I also see is you putting huge significance on one BBQ, and a pair of slippers. Remember, you know you can trust that she is moving back to the MR when her behavior is consistent over a long period of time. Minimum 6 months. These sitches do not turn around over night.
I'm not putting great significance on it. I'm just seeing if as part of a softening. Two months ago we had not spoken for most of a year. As LH19 said "zero expectations"
