So a strange thing just happened and I wanted to get all of your opinion on it.
Whislt we were on the staycation my wife told me some of her friends were organising a bbq. I just said “Thats nice” and left it at that.
Just now the whole family is sitting on the settee. I am at one end cuddling my youngest and watching tv. She is at the other end on her phone.
My wife started talking and the conversation went something like this. W: My friends are organising a bbq on 12th Nov Me: Which friends? W: With annoyance in her voice “As if you know any of my friends” Me: Ok Minute silence W: Would you like to go?, in a calmer voice Me: You and me? W: They are all going as couples Me: I would love to come
Baring in mind we havent been out together on our own for about 18 months and she regularly go to her friends events on her own, as well as when she fitted OM into her schedule.
Twenty minutes later she went to the PC and ordered some stuff online. She then asked if I wanted anything and bought me a pair of slippers when I said yes.
Im not sure it this manipulating or a reapair attempt. Like I said she has a large amount of friends and an active social life and hasnt invited me to anything for over 18 months.
I would really have preferred you were busy that day and then gone out and GAL. But ok, you are committed to go now. It didn't sound to me like "I really want to go with you and have you meet all my friends." It sounded to me like "I don't have a better option at the moment, so will you go?" I worry what would have happened if OM had still been in the picture. Maybe not due to the laws in your country.
What I also see is you putting huge significance on one BBQ, and a pair of slippers. Remember, you know you can trust that she is moving back to the MR when her behavior is consistent over a long period of time. Minimum 6 months. These sitches do not turn around over night.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
