To be honest I do not believe she would ever leave, she cannot get a divorce in this country without my approval and she cannot move out as she cannot afford it. So she will just carry on cake eating and trying to hook up with other men.
I wanted to highlight this--your wife asked long ago for divorce but is literally trapped. You believe she advertised the affairs to you in hopes that you would approve a divorce.
Yes, that is my understanding of the current situation. She has mentioned a few times that I should realise she told me about it in the belief that I would immediately proceed for divorce. Whenever the A is brought up, she says I shouldn't go on about it as it takes her back to that place, where she just wanted out.
Part of the reason I am confused is that within two months of my doing the LRT technique she is discussing living in the same rented property for another year. I'm not sure if this is from the LRT or because OM has fobbed her off currently.
However at the moment we have been communicating for over two months.
