Not sure we are misaligned here. I agree with everything. However, I do think SA needs to stop letting her scream at him. He isn't her dad, but neither is she his mother. She needs to be conditioned that screaming doesn't result in what she wants, vs. now where screaming gets her her way. Bad dynamic.
Just to clarify, she wasn't screaming, I could just tell by her tone of voice that she was starting to get angry. I thought it was better not to escalate as it was over nothing really.
The next time she does scream, I am already planning to deploy something similar to what you said.
