The staycation was a bad idea period. You end up in a relationship talk that includes her talking to you about having sex with another man and then you want to cuddle. It’s very weak behavior.
Right now she knows you’re desperate to save the marriage and is going to use your uncontrollable behavior against you. I understand you you were acting like a prick the last year but there is nothing you can do about that now.
It’s time for some boundaries and there should be some serious consequences if broken.
I thought the staycation was ok, bar the drunk relationship talk. It give us quite a bit of time together during the day, when I just listened and validated her conversation. I few times she asked questions about my job, which I thought was a big step change according to MWD.
She could she my behaviour around the kids and how I spent time with them. She said the family time made her feel really happy. She also told me that everyone enjoyed themselves, when we arrived home.
She is still in bed this morning, I am going to back off a little today and not start any conversation with her and go out on my own.
