Do you understand that how a woman "FEELS" in your presence is important. Change your behavior and the way you interact changes the way she feels.
Confusion is good. Keep her confused. Your job now is to listen and validate her.
I thought confusion was good. I trying with the valadation and empathising. We basically spent three days on our own whilst the kids where using the waterpark. I just let her talk and tried to validate and empathise. I can see when im doing it well when the conversation goes something like this:
W: Tells me a story about something/someone Me: That's ridiculous, you most have been really annoyed/angry/upset/furious about that W: Exactly
