I am not sure how much of the previous nights conversation she remembered as she was really drunk.
So we slept in different beds in the same room and the next morning she woke me up by pushing my shoulder and asking if I was coming to breakfast. When I said "Yes" she pulled back my cover and lay in the bed beside me. She gave me a cuddle for about 5 minutes without saying a word. Then she said we had better go for breakfast and got up again. Im really confused by this.
Anyway after breakfast she lay down in her bed and I asked in I could lie down to. She pulled back the cover and lay with her head on my chest for about 10 minutes. We didnt say anything to each other.
We went out and spent the day again sitting on sun loungers talking. I again mostly listened and validated and empathised.
Later in the evening we went for a walk around the hotel, just the two of us.
The next morning, I again asked if I could lie down. She moved over and let me cuddle her and link my fingers in hers. I am going to stop asking for this, I don't think it is helping anything and probably making her more resentful that she cuddled me in first place.
I need to go back to no relationship talk and no talk about the affair.
I'm also not going to look at her phone again, it is only making me feel worse.
As you have all said there is nothing I can say or do to stop her seeing another man. I think all I can do at the moment, is work on myself and show her what she would be missing, be LRTing all the time.
