So we arrived at the hotel, which had a waterpark. The kids went on the rides and we sat together on some sun loungers. She talked all afternoon about her job and some people she had issues with. I just listened, validated and empathised.
That night the whole family went out for dinner. We had two bottles of wine and one point she held my arm as she explained some point. When we went back to the hotel room, the kids went to bed and we sat on the balcony and and shared another bottle of wine. The conversation was the same as before, kids, job, etc. I could see she was quite drunk.
She went to the bathroom and when she came back she pulled her chair right in front on mine. She leaned into "kissing range" from my face and said "What are you looking at?", I said "A beautiful woman", She said "Good", then I apologised for treating her badly by stonewalling. At this point the conversation went bad. She pulled away again and she started talking about how much she wanted a divorce and I couldn't change, etc, etc. Unfortunately, I let myself become involved and a load of discussion about the affair began.
This went on for a while, and I probably revealed more than I should have done about what I know about the affair. At one point I walked off, then I came back and apologised for walking off.
She said a few things that were weird. She said sometimes she wants to cuddle me as she can she I'm in a lot of pain. She also said that I should listen to the sober conversation (I am assuming she meant the one in the previous post) not the drunk conversation. She also said she is observing that I am trying hard.
She said I should not be spying or keeping track on her as this will only make things worse.
We went to bed around 3am with both of us not in a very good mood
