My X had the spreadsheet as well. I got limits put in place. items needed receipts. All items needs to be submitted by a deadline. We had a financial mediator to help resolve disagreements (Never used him).

Here is the last Email regarding this topic:
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Hi X,
It appears there is still confusion between the two of us regarding our last agreement signed on 1/14/16, particularly section D.

My understand is we equalize our reimbursements 4 times a year. Currently, we are equalizing during the first part of July for April, May and June expenses.

Part of the equalization is "proof of payment". Your spreadsheets and emails are not proof of payment. I did not see any attachments showing the invoices or the proof of payment.


Obviously I do not want to quibble, but I do want a copy of the documentation we agreed to supply each other for my records.

Best Regards, R2C


I highly recommend get this type of agreement with you X into your paper work.


Do not roll over like a puppy dog.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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