I used to be upset by ghosting. I have been deleted in the middle of a very normal convo. None of it ever made sense, but I sure learned you have to let it roll off your back if you want to stay in the game. To KML’s point, many people choose ghosting now because people tend to become very angry when someone isn’t interested. And when you had that experience, it’s out of nervousness and disappearing is the only option to some.
Tinder is tough. It’s a mixed bag. A lot of people cheating on their spouses. A lot of people separated, still living im house separation. Most who just want a hook up. Rarely an R on Tinder, but it does happen.
One guy I went on a few dates with is freshly divorced and his ex W just gave birth to her OM’s kid and is going through custody stuff with their 2 young kids. Great guy, just not in a relationship zone. We became friends though. Actual real friends.
I’m dating another, this guy is really into me. He’s been hinting at exclusivity and it so happens I am now the avoidant. Go figure. But I guess rarely on tinder, a relationship could come out of it.
Just keep having fun, but don’t give to much space to online ghosters you never met . Totally not worth it !
