Well I can’t say I’m at all surprised about the outcome. This ghosting stuff seems to have become an epidemic and goes right along with the rest of the demise of our society. I truly think it’s learned behavior. Far too many people lack the ability and skill to think on their own. Instead they are sheep and follow the crowd. They have been ghosted themselves or see it happen and now assume it’s proper behavior and do it just as a course of life. It’s sad but I swear it’s what’s been going in. It’s learned behavior. The current learned behavior is you don't have to work and you don’t have to pay your rent - the government has helped to create this expanding mindset and we are starting to see the chaos that has created. But back on topic, this was building years ago already and became soul sucking for me. I was still not going on quality dates and felt crappy on top of it. It will be very interesting to see where all this social media and OLD eventually ends up. Thanks for commenting on Tinder though DJV, interesting to hear and compare your experiences. As I’ve said many times before, OLD could have been a great thing but has been so corrupted by a growing majority it’s hard for me to see any remaining value. Funny thing is, the longer people try it, the closer they move over to my side of thinking on it. I will agree the key seems to meet in person early. The longer a meeting is delayed the less chance it will happen.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D