So things are going to have to get a lot worse before they get better.
Sure that’s a start but don’t expect her to stop.
Your call on the staycation. If you go just concentrate on the kids. Just so you know there is absolutely nothing you can say or do to turn this around right now.
So how should I bring this up, if I say she needs to stop contacting men or I will cut the money off, she will just say she is not contacting men
Well there is ways to verify. Access to cellphone etc.