When we got home from the sports event it was arounds 11:30 pm. She immediately said she needed to go to get something from the grocery store. I thought this was a bit strange at this time at night, but didn’t say anything.
I put the kids to bed and went and sat downstairs. I know that all the shops close at midnight, so I wanted to see what time she got home. She was back home around 00:20 and did have some shopping, but not anything that I could see was urgently required at that time of night.
I asked her if she wanted a glass of wine and she said yes. We drank 2 bottles and sat up talking until about 3AM. There was no direct relationship talk, but she was discussing the kids school stuff and wishing that we could buy a rental flat back in our home city. During all this time her phone was on the table and she opened it a few times in front of me to use whatsapp. I could see the message and it was to her female friend. At one point she went to the toilet and left the phone on the table, but I didn’t touch it. Around 3 AM she was very drunk and just went to bed.
This morning she has just stayed in here room.
So, I think one of two things is happening:
1) She is still seeing her AP and is lying to me. I know the nationality of the AP (I have his picture) and I called her on it, she directly lied about it and said he wasn’t that nationality
2) She has had a falling out with the AP and is meeting this other man to set up the next AP. During the conversation in her room, she said she had no guilt and regret about the affair. Her only regret was that she didn’t start one before.
Tomorrow we are supposed to be taking the kids to a two-day staycation where there is a waterpark. I thinking that I should call her on still being in communication with the AP and say that I am not going to go on this staycation.
