BL - I’ve had a couple of short term relationships from OLD so only just started again in the summer. I don’t swipe right on very many. This is the first guy I’ve talked to online since I went out with JB in July. Mostly I’ve just looked at the profiles of people who have “liked” me first. I went out with a few people in May and June but no one I wanted to see a second time. They were all very nice. Three were interested in a second date but I just wasn’t feeling it. The fourth one was a mutual “no thanks” even though we did have a nice time and both of us said we should want to go out again…we just didn’t…lol. This is the first guy who has ghosted me.
I think you are right KML. I think there must be someone else in the picture and he decided to pursue her OR he is actually in a relationship already and grew a conscience. I don’t think it was that he suddenly didn’t want to meet me…not when he was the one who asked me out in the first place.
I just hate the whole ghosting thing. How hard would it have been to text me…”Hey. Nice chatting with you but I’ve changed my mind about wanting to meet. Best of luck in the future.” I would have been disappointed but I would have wished him luck in return. To me, it’s just common courtesy but I guess a lot of people prefer to just press delete and avoid a potentially uncomfortable situation? Not nearly as uncomfortable as it would be if we ran into each other in the community which is entirely possible given where he works…lol.
Anyway…I was kinda sad for a little while today but I’m good now. At the end of the day, he just wasn’t my person. Like Bttrfly said…NEXT… (((HUGS)))
