Originally Posted by kas99
My coworkers want me to at least wear clothes that fit. lol
Good advice. I'm on board with that lol

Originally Posted by kas99
I don't even think any of this matters. The judge won't care if I was a psychotic wife or that he cheated (true fault state) but she will care that he drug this out for 2 years while he having a girlfriend. He's moved on but has kept me stuck.
Hopefully Monday is a step in the right direction for getting you some closure.

Originally Posted by kas99
He's denying that he cheated which okay fine but he's been in a relationship for over 2 years so divorce me already. Geesh.
No kidding. Pretty selfish.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21