Turns out my hair is healthier than I thought and I got this total makeover. I'm unrecognizable now. I'm also down 2 sizes from when he last saw me. Less stress = less emotional eating.
That's awesome! Good for you!
Originally Posted by kas99
What do I wear? My self esteem is low so I wear baggy clothes. I want to send the message that he didn't crush me but I feel like if I try too hard it looks like I care what he thinks.
Wear something that makes you feel attractive, confident, and happy. Don't do it for him. He's not important any more.
Good luck Monday. Hope the deposition goes well. Prepare yourself for emotions during questioning. Try to stay calm and answer the questions. If you feel yourself getting angry or upset take a breath and pause a minute and even ask your attorney for a break.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
