Hoping things are getting better

[SteveLW]

I would be happy to see that happen to him, I couldnt report my wife though.

I'm not saying you should report her - that would be a pretty extreme - but I am saying at some point down the road you may feel like you wish you had. Think of the 5 Stages of Grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance). Right now you're in denial or bargaining or depression, or some combination. You still don't want to lose your family or marriage, and so you want her AP punished but not her. At some point though you will get really angry at her. And I'm guessing at some point down the road as your sitch progresses feelings might bubble up that you wish you had her put in jail. Again, not saying you should...just prepare yourself for that emotion down the road.

Thanks, I'm sure it will come up several times. It wouldn't benefit my or the kids expect for a feeling of revenge

You can't get in trouble for not reporting it, can you? I am not sure how Sharia works.