I also think that the kids will definitely feed off the vibes from the parents and partners. My kids HATED OM when they were moved in there. Now I dropped them off to him a little bit before my EW got off work. He and I sat and talked about the mandatory vaccines and stuff and Just how the world is getting crazy for a minute then I left. He takes time to play games with the kids, he asks them about their day and they have let go of the anger toward him regarding the D because I have asked them to. They are happy. So it can for sure go either way.
Some will also be on my gf’s temperance and patience especially when she doesn’t have her own kids. But I have faith in her, she is a good woman and I feel like with time and for how greatful my the distance it will allow them to slowly build a bond. And if things don’t work out I feel like the kids will be upset but they will Understand. They are sharp little ones. I just keep doing what I feel like I should be doing and praying for the best. But I am really careful about how I do this because I can’t undo mistakes with the little ones.
Thanks for the feedback everyone <3
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
