Ok, right now I feel like crap. After reading you guys responses I have done nothing but worry that there is an affair going. My wife went out Friday night, really dresses up to the nines. She was out from around this 7:30 and arrived home about 11 pm. I was in bed when she got back, but she sat up with my oldest son and went to bed around 1am.

There has been no further mention from her about the affair (and hasnt been for two months - it was talked about during three arguments and all information was volunteered, I didnt even ask if she was having an affair, it was just told to me that she was) but for some reason it is going over and over in my head and I cannot really sleep or focus at work!

Should I ask about it, or tell her how i feel? I think if I confront her she will go back to not speaking again and sitting in her room with the door closed. At least there is some communication currently.


End Date 11th August 2022 - One way or the other!