I respect butterfly's friend's preference for dating men who prefer Tinder over dating men who prefer Bumble.
On Tinder-style apps, for men maybe 33-67% of your messages go into the void, and you have to send more frequent messages to stay on top of womens' inboxes since many men are messaging them.
On Bumble-style apps, for men nearly 100% of your messages get replies and you don't have to send reminders. It's time-efficiency and the in-app depth of conversations that makes me prefer Bumble.
Choose one in Fall. Choose one in Winter. Find you. (:
